Of course we're completely pumped that Gus will be arriving home soon, but our excitement over his arrival doesn't remove the elephant in the room: what about the other children? Not long after we chose to build our family through adoption, we started to ask this question. We are thrilled to be the family for our children, even though it's not fair that they should need a second family. But what about the children who lose their first family and don't have a second family either? We can't adopt every child who needs a home.
We aren't the first people to ask this question, of course.
Half the Sky, a non-profit foundation which provides love, education, and foster families for an increasing number of children who are without homes in China was founded by a family asking this question about the children who they had seen in their daughter's orphanage. Since its founding in 1998 and the opening of its first pilot program in 2000, Half the Sky has expanded to serve thousands of children in its 30 centers in China.
We are proud to support Half the Sky--but the question "What about the others?" is really two questions. The first is, "What happens to the children who have lost their first families?" This issue is what Half the Sky addresses. Although we value Half the Sky's work in loving and educating children in orphanages, its work does not answer the second question, "Why do so many children lose their first families to begin with?" In this case, there's very little that we as Americans can do about that problem, because it is rooted in governmental action and social norms.
However, we can do something about that problem in Guatemala. Most of the relinquishments in Guatemala are rooted in poverty and lack of education. We cannot change that Gus needs a second family right now, but if we could help the families before they have children whose care they cannot sustain, then we could help reduce the number of children in Gus's situation who need a second family. And by solving the second problem, we would also solve the first.
With this goal in mind, we recently evaluated a number of charitable organizations that work in Guatemala and around the world. There are many worthy organizations that work with children who are growing up in orphanages or on the streets of Guatemala, but we wanted to focus our efforts mainly on prevention. We found three organizations which we are now proud to support. We wanted to bring them to your attention so that you could learn what efforts are being put forth to help keep children in their first families in Guatemala, and to assist in those efforts if you choose. We feel that as adoptive parents we bear a special responsibility to the children who are missing their first families and who, for some reason, are not in Gus's place to come home to ours (or to other loving families). And we hope that with our help, Gus will be one of the last children in Guatemala to need a second home.
Safe Passage works with the families whose livelihoods depend on the Guatemala City dump. These families, who were profiled in the Oscar-nominated short documentary "Recycled Life," are mainly indigenous Mayans who were forced from their land during the civil war. The parents daily dig through the trash, but children were banned after a methane explosion in 2005. Safe Passage works with those children and their families to give them a way out of poverty, so that the next generation will not look forward to a "career" of digging through the dump. In Guatemala, school is free but the uniforms and materials required to attend it are not. Safe Passage provides uniforms, after-school tutoring, music and sports, nutrition, and medicine for the children. They also offer literacy tutoring for the parents.
Freedom from Hunger is a microloan organization (this concept has become much better known since Mohammad Yunus won the 2006 Nobel Peace Prize for his work in microloans, but it's not a new idea. FFH was founded in 1946). It provides small loans and business advice to people (usually women) to start small businesses. Along with the business assistance they provide education on health and nutrition, which along with the extra income significantly improves the health and outlook of the family. Repayment of the loans allows new loans to be made and more families to better care for themselves.
Agros International is the most innovative charity we've seen yet. It focuses on an entire rural community, first helping them secure a loan as a group for land for their community. The land is key, because in Guatemala and other places, the indigenous people were forcibly removed from their land and communities. Their way of life was destroyed and they were given "career options" like digging through the Guatemala City garbage dump. Agros begins with a community looking to work together to start over. It finds land for that community, then helps them succeed with community education, infrastructure assistance, and microloans. As the community flourishes they are able to repay the loans, which are then used to secure a land loan for another community.
We feel that it is a great gift to be able to help Gus's people--it is a privilege, like the privilege of being his parents. Of course we would be delighted to discuss any of these organizations further in person, and we hope that as some of you are looking for gifts for Gus that you would also or instead consider a gift to his people in his honor.
Two new acquisitions of note to report. Reb has recently learned to knit, and of course the first project she decided
to take on was a wool diaper cover for the young'un. He'll be stylin'. It turned out really well, I must say. Note the drawstring waistband.
More pictures today. He's sitting up! And he's wearing the onesie his grandparents sent him! What a dapper young man our son is. I posted all the pictures to our usual Flickr account.
We got the opportunity to send down a package to Gus today. Insiders call these packages "Ziplocs of Love." Now you know. They're very strict on how the package thing works. Not wanting the Bethany Guatemala reps to be overburdened with gifts to pass on to children's foster homes, the rules are:
We inherited a car seat from one of Reb's co-workers whose daughter just outgrew it. Unfortunately, the denim seat cover was in pretty sorry shape, which was understandable given the harsh treatment they undergo. It was grimy and faded with two years worth of sun exposure and crushed Cheerios. However, the seat itself is perfectly sound and only took a bit of cleaning to restore to mint condition.
